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Old Mar 05, 2013, 03:10 AM
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How much does it cost to have a baby at your hospital? How much $$$ do you have saved up? Do you have enough insurance coverage with your kind of job? Does it provide maternity leave? Are you in thee US?

Are you prepared to NOT only raise a baby , but a toddler, preteen, and a teenager? In the best way possible for the child? Will he have a good home? stable family life? Preschool, schooling plans? That is 20 years of your life, can't be that 'young girl' anymore. think about a child's life, being in a rush isn't an excuse to "get a baby". I believe parents who wait can give best care for child, I envy those kids who got their lives set ahead for them
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Also, you've known him for 6 mo. and you're not even married, wanting a baby. He needs to know he's in a committed relationship. both of you. Do you know him enough? Do you know his yearly cyclic moods? Are you aware of your own mood? Also, men nowadays are afraid of child support, plse don't quote I 'm not trying to get into politics