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Originally Posted by wotchermuggle
I know that I came out of the other side by putting up a wall with my new therapist for a long time. I put an emotional boundary there for myself so that I could deal better. It had a lot to do with trust. Was this new therapist going to leave his practice on short notice like my last T? Until I could be sure that I wasn't going to get dropped, I was scared to trust and let my new T help.
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I'm only a month into grieving for my xt. I also think of the people he's treating instead of me, in MY time slots. It was such a terrible ending. I'm having a tough time finding a new T. I've interviewed many and the thought has occurred to me that I'll never trust another therapist, so how am I going to find one? How can you work with someone when your emotional boundary is between you?
It hurts like hell.