Have just begun that process, putting the pieces together, in my case facing some huge early losses that have colored everything since then... have a lot of work to do with my therapist (social worker, not a shrink)... she says it's like peeling an onion, and can't be rushed faster than a given soul can handle it... now that I started, I want to rush though it, have a cram course in healing! Can't be that way, took a long time to get this damaged, gonna take time to mend [survivor of six suicides in family & friends]