Gosh Adam, I can't say as I blame you. Has anything like this happened before?
You mentioned "emotional affairs." She's had these before, huh? How many? Why doesn't your wife work?

It's good you have therapy today -- make sure you talk alot about this and about what your therapist thinks you should do about it.

Personally, if your wife has had emotional affairs before, and now this -- I don't think I'd put up with anymore. But that's just me. I'm a hot-headed Irish-woman.

God bless, Adam, and let us know what the therapist says, ok? Hugs, Lee