Once with XT I forgot my cell. It was not a regular appointment, and when I got there (a 45 min drive) he told me he had just gotten an urgent call from his son. He told me I could wait, and he came back in about a half hour. At this point I had been out of contact with the world for an hour fifteen, adding an hour session and an addition 45 minutes for the ride home. I knew H would be worried. So I sucked it up and asked if I could briefly use his phone. I thought I would use his office phone on his desk, but he reached into his trouser pocket and pulled out his cell. It was warm. It felt gross and weird and way too close. I called H anyways. That was a huge boundary issue for me.

I've never used the loo at any t's office.