Ajmich, You and I are so alike. I also have problems with phones , txtn is fine. I think its the fact that yur just not up to talking, and people that dont understand get really mad like my dad when I dont answer. Talking for me is the most difficult thing of all. whrn yur down its very hard to express yur feelings. When I'm very down I cant speak, and if breathing was not an involintary action, I dont think I'd bother. Knock the phone off altogether just until you fell a little more able to deal with other people. Thanks for your kind coments on "problems"