I am not saying that I want a baby just to halt my party days. I know a baby does not want to stay in all the time. I would take it out and do things with it. I have heard from many different sources that a women's chances start to decrease at 26 for having a baby. I am taking to heart what everyone has to say. I did post this to get advice and I appericate the advice you guys have given. I just have felt this way for the last year. It not like I just came to this choice over the last 6 months I have wanted to have a baby since I was 21. You guys are right now maybe waiting at least another 6 or 7 months to make that jump would be best give us some time to figure things out. I can say though we agree on a lot of the same parenting styles we would use. Him and I were raised on the same values so that really does help. There are very few things when it comes to parenting that we don't agree on thank you guys for the advice.