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Originally Posted by dark_heart_x
Maybe you should tell them that they trigger you and it's best to stay at a distance. Sometimes you just have to take care of yourself. Toxic relationships are not healthy for anyone involved. So tell them, out of respect for everyone, it may be best not to have visits for a while. Some people don't understand this, but after the abuse from your mom and how it seems your sister doesn't have understanding for your situation, it may be best to take a break from them.
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my mom is toxic. my sister isnt. she just doesnt understand. and im tired of explaining to everyone including my dad what i go through. im just exhausted cause i spent a good amount of past 5-6 years doing that. im tired of talk to docs and therapists. im lucky my dad not only has sympathy but actually kinda gets it.
but yea my mom is toxic. when i first got there she was drunk. i said "are you drunk?" and she said "NO. have you been smoking?" im thinking um ok?.
i dont see my sister often but 3 times a year so shes already at a distance.
my main problem is my mom anyway.
i already had a plan. thats why i didnt call for a month.