That is the beauty of hypotheticals, with no yeah buts you can't add bits in like your own experience - You answered with a big 'yeah but' then spoke to god not your son so technically you still have not completed the exercise. ';0) but its encouraging to hear you got my point regardless.

I'm really glad to hear you are planning to get out tomorrow, that is a good first step forward. I joined a choir to give me the chance to get out, I don't always make it there but when I do find the strength I always come away feeling glad I made it. The hardest part is always leaving the flat. I'm gonna be keeping my fingers crossed for you that you make it xxx