Thanks Leed....I have stepped away from it. Thatsse the problem now. My mother in law is mad at me because I wont have anything to do with the gf. I dont talk to her. Or Nathen. Too much drama for me. And after what she did to my husband I dont feel like I can trust her. But I cant get my mom in law to understand that. Me & her got into an argument over it a month or so ago. I hate arguing with anyone but especially her. She & I were really close. But she chose not to talk to me because I wont have anything to do with the gf. I barely know this girl for one thing. For another, Ive seen what her lies have done to my husband & I already & I dont want no part of a person like that. But, of course, the gf has her own story about me & they are believing it. So really theres nothing I can do anyway.