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Originally Posted by JMT22
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he enjoys smoking weed. I am against the drug but I don't mind him doing it occasionally. I have caught him 4 time's smoking a lying about it to me. He is only suppose to do it on the weekend. Today (monday) I was going to surprise him at his house. I walked in and he was shocked to see me. I felt his pocket and sure enough there was a pipe. I was livid. I am unsure of how to handle this situation.
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1) he enjoys it a lot
2) you are against it 100%
3) you do not mind occasional use
So you are conflicted and deliver a mixed message since 2) and 3) are contradictory, and he is in conflict with both 2) and 3).
As Shezbut said, 1) is going to stay put.
Whether you can change with respect to 2) and 3) is up to you. It is your call completely and not something that merits getting the wisdom of the crowds via polling, in my opinion. It is your life to live, after all.