Thread: I told her
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Old Mar 05, 2013, 02:44 PM
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I told my therapist I had a crush on her.

I trusted in our relationship enough to know that we will work through it. It was such a relief to get it off my chest, but now that it is out in the open my feelings have grown stronger for her.

I know I will eventually have to start letting go of the unrealistic feelings, but right now I want to dwell in the fantasies. My T is being wonderfully supportive and allowing me to work through all the aspects of the crush.

Truthfully I am afraid of the heartbreak I will feel when I do finally accept the reality of the situation.

This is my first post here and I'm hoping it helps me put all of these feelings into the proper context. I originally went for therapy to help deal with some personal relationship issues and so far I've been very satisfied with my progress. I feel very fortunate to have found my T and I want to find a way to navigate these feelings without ruining the relationship.

This message board has already helped me to see that this is not an uncommon situation and that I'm not crazy to have these feelings.
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