Yes Adam you CAN cope with it.

Don't let her take your POWER away. Don't let her steal your self-esteem! That's what she's doing and don't allow that! Take it BACK. Don't give her that power! She just isn't worth that! Let her live her tawdry little life, and YOU go on to bigger and better things!
You'll eventually fiind someone who DESERVES YOU! That woman does not! You'll find a nice woman, a woman who is loyal, true, and loving. They ARE out there, Adam and I know you'll find one just right for you!
So give yourself some time to heal from this betrayal, but don't grieve for this woman! She doesn't deserve it.

You can grieve for the lost time, and lost marriage, but not her. Go home and get some rest Adam. You're exhausted. I hope you sleep well. Tomorrow is a new day.

Hugs, Lee