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Originally Posted by countrymouse
I usually get very sad about my selfishness and it generally ruins the rest of the next few days.
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That is a problem that is easy to solve, because it is self-contained and involves only you and not her.
You are not selfish and you do not need to feel sad, and therefore, the next few days need not be ruined.
My understanding has always been that people who are solely concerned with their own pleasure (at the moment), masturbate. People who also want to see their partner happy initiate partner sex. What is selfish about it???