(((iota))),

I am so sorry about this. I understand your being shocked that they have taken such a drastic step with this. Don't let yourself keep going over it and allow yourself some time to talk to an attorney about this. You may have alot you can do about this that you don't know yet, so don't let yourself determine the future ok? The sooner you find an attorney and move forward with knowing your options the better you will feel.
So make sure you don't "project" and just take the next steps.

(((Big supportive Hugs)))

OE