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Originally Posted by JMT22
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he enjoys smoking weed. I am against the drug but I don't mind him doing it occasionally. I have caught him 4 time's smoking a lying about it to me. He is only suppose to do it on the weekend. Today (monday) I was going to surprise him at his house. I walked in and he was shocked to see me. I felt his pocket and sure enough there was a pipe. I was livid. I am unsure of how to handle this situation.
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OK, I have reread the OP. So he smokes
at his house. He was not expecting you - it was supposed to be a surprise. So it is not that he was expecting you to visit and made the house smell of weed, which would have been unpleasant to you. He thought that he was being by himself.
Then why do you care about it?
I do not like second hand tobacco smoke so it is not allowed in my apartment. Nor can I tolerate somebody's smoking in his apartment in my presence. But in my absence people are free to smoke in their apartments.
So I do not get what the issue is.
Also, feeling somebody's pocket reminds me of security checks in airports.