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Mar 06, 2013, 08:24 AM
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Member Since: Feb 2013
Location: dayton oh
Posts: 1
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Originally Posted by wounded1
I told my husband that he needs to move out. Our middle son's birthday is Dec. 16th and then Xmas, but after that he needs to leave. It is so hard living with someone who has broken your heart and acts like everything is okay. Watching him go about his business like nothing has happened, wondering if he's already moving on to someone new, waiting for the communication that never comes. I've known for nine of the ten years that we've been married that he is incapable of loving me, but I thought if I loved him enough that it could work. It didn't. Now my heart is breaking and he seems relieved. I am counting the minutes until...I don't know. The healing can begin?
Thank you for letting me cry on your shoulders.
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when I read your note- it was right out of my own mouth- I had 29 yrs- he is happy- I set him free-I am still in love with him- we have been sep for 2 1/2 yrs-it kills me to see my family broken- I did all I can do- I lean on the lord In jesus name- we are whole-strong-wonderfully made--many things help us in his words- But we do have to go through agrieveing prosscess- I see a counseler -once A WEEK - ON A SCALE TO FIT MY INCOME-WE ARE WORKING ON MY SELF IMAGE AND WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY -THAT MY HUSBAND WOULD NOT DO WITH ME- i HAVE JUST IN THE LAST 3 MONTHS BEEN GETTING UP and out of my bed- I spent over a yr in my bed- I never thought I could feel better- but I do- God is God- Praise Jesus -amen! There are self help links for free on internet- I use them to- will be praying for you- togther we can support each other- The Lord says we should surround ourselves with others who will hold us up- you need new friend realtionship-s
Debra V
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