I've been dating this guy for slightly over 2 years. Things were great at first but now it just seems like everything is exactly the same. I get annoyed at a lot of little things he does. He doesn't treat me as well as he used to and seems as though he's too comfortable with us being together, like he doesn't think I'd ever leave him. At times when we do get along and have fun together I care about him strongly but I don't know if I love him.

He is very clingy and cuddly and I want to actually go out and DO something whereas all he ever wants to do is cuddle. I like cuddling but not all the time! It just seems like we don't belong together sometimes.

I told him everything that I've noticed and he's trying to make things better but my mind won't let me be receptive. He's trying to make me smile or laugh but I just think it's stupid and get annoyed. Very often we just don't talk or I get annoyed with him. I feel like I would break up with him except I'm just so used to being with him, I don't know what it would be like without being with him. Plus, we have all the same friends and I'm scared it would ruin my friendships. I just want to know if I still love him or if I'm just used to being with him.

Thanks to anyone who tries to help!