Leed.... I just do not understand him anymore.... he is so controlling, jealous & compulsive all the time... I know he loves me & my DD... but he takes his anger out on her mentally every day.... & somehow shelters me.. and without knowing this... he has alienated both of us! And at the same time he blames ME for everything that is wrong???? In his words couple of months ago... We should start thinking about our future from when we (him & I) want to die???? And at this point... maybe we should both die together... I truly believe I need to get out of here... sooner than later with my DD.... but what about my little animal family? Confused