Hii.. Friends..
I came to this site because from past several years am unable to come out of this depression. Iam a 23 year old Indian male. There are two train of thoughts in mind always . 1. I need to achieve , need success , reach the top.
2. Need a girl friend , all i need is happiness and a girl can give me that.
Now am convinced that both cannot at same time ( In Indian situation , my age it is not possible , saw many examples).
So last year i started talking to a girl , immediately my thoughts were shifted and i wanted go away from her (to achieve) and when i fight (with her) my thoughts immediately shift to I WANT HER. In the friction between these two notions I went into a depression. And finally i decided i wanted her and proposed her and she rejected me leading to more depression and afterthat i proposed again and again , she rejected me again and again. So more and more depression. I now know i cannot get her. I want to achieve. I want to resolve my dilemma. Please help if anyone can!!