My family was/is. There latest was about me being a murderer because my hamster died. But they make fun of my weight, my diet, and even my grades. (And with grades I am 17 and a sophmore in college). Ive been punished for doing too much work... literally my Mother said "Yes, you are being punished for doing to much work because..."
My Mother often tells me she is "dissapointed in me" and "has raised me better" and that I could control myself, I just dont choose to and that I beat up on her.
One day I had friends over and I thanked my Mom a bunch and then at dinner she compained about how I hadn't helped all date and gave letter grades to me and my siblings on how each much we had helped. She have an A, 2 Bs, a C and then she gave me a D. It made me so sad.
Here are some of the things my Mother has said:
"You're my indetured servant today"
"That music is easy. I could have James (7 yrs old) play it for you."
"We hold all the power. I could pull you out of school tomorrow and make you sit here at home and I can cover that with the state."
"You have it better than 90% of the work. And if you want to leave, there's the door, dont let it hit you on the *** on the way out."
"the family got hit with all the S--- from you"
"stop being a B--ch

One New Years eve she said, "You will be quiet and at least pretend like you're having fun. This means a lot to your father and you're not going to ruin it.... although you already did a good job of that."

Another time she said about me, "She's gonna be the one forty years from now saying 'I was abused and they never have me anything because thats how she remembers things. She's gonna be like they were so mean to me and they picked on me...'"

My Dad once said, "I will crucify everyone if there's a problem"

And this was kind of how Ive spent the last few years. There are a million quotes like this but now my siblings start too. My Mother always wants to know if I have to make a crisis out of everything. And she makes me want to curl up in a ball and die. I completely understand and I sympathise