Please forgive me, as I originally had posted without reading the entirety of the thread.

I am sorry.
Adam, I am so sorry this happened to you...I cannot imagine how you must feel right now.

Please, know if I can do anything for you, I'm a PM away. You are in my prayers, and I hope that you'll be able to move on. You are so right...you do deserve better. I know that is hollow comfort now, but you were open and honest with her. You deserved the same amount of respect. I am sorry you were not shown it.
Hugs,
Harley