Honey, she can't possibly begin to understand. She is 23 for starters. This man is her father, she cannot fathom the feelings you have regarding this man. It's like comparing apples to oranges. He's was your husband, but he is her father. You and your daughter both share the same issue, inability to understand the others viewpoint. I don't think your daughter is trying to be insensitive, this man will always be her dad. He has little to no connection to you because he is your ex husband. That is where the difference lye's.