Been with my sig other for 21 years. We are both divorced. I have no children, his are grown. We have been unsteady for years and just got used to it. There have been times when I have been unhappy, but since losing my mom and my job, I feel I want to leave. Although he is a good man, I feel I did not choose wisely. He sorts his change daily ... Quarters and dimes go in his jar, pennies and nickels go in the "community" jar. I feel this represents the disconnect in us.

Do I leave or am I just stuck in the grass is greener syndrome which is pulling me down further?