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Originally Posted by raena
sorry, he wants to be with other girls and me at the same time, or just watch me be with other girls/guys..... that is his big fantasy he wants fulfilled. and i want none of it.  |
OK, I think I am beginning to understand.
If it is a fantasy involving you that he is trying to fulfill, and you want none of it, then you should definitely not engage in whatever it is that you do not want. Sex is supposed to pleasurable to the participants. If you do not like something, you should not engage in it, and tough luck for him.
If he wants to have relationships with other girls independent of you (ones that do not involve you), then it is your judgment call.
But definitely do not fulfill fantasies that are unpleasant to you. You would be serving a duty, and sex as a duty is no fun.