yeah that pretty much sums it up.

but with in the last fight we had, we pretty much agreed that if im not willing to budge and neither is he, we may as well break up. So I said that I would TRY to be a bit more open... I said that I wont do anything, but if he wants to go have sex with another girl I wont stop him as long as he just does it a few times to get it out of his system with my knowing about it at a sex club or something like that..... that way while hes doing that i can wander around and see if anything appeals to me...

I dont know if that is the right path to take, but it felt like the only way to get out of my corner at that point in time.

I dont want to tell him that he cant fulfill his needs, because as much as it makes me feel better, he will be in the depression boat too then because he isnt getting what he 'needs'.

am i making sense?