Polyamory, good idea. At least interesting to read. I don't know what the answer is for you guys.

I think if you let him sleep w/ other women he might can get it our of his system for a little while but not long term. Think of sex as Huge Hershey's bar w/ lots of little pieces. You can have some little by little, or you can have some hots at a time. Now once it is gone you might be good for a while. But it ain't gonna be forever. You will want more chchcolate. He most likely be the same way w/ sex w/ someone else. he'll get his fill for a little while then he will want it agian.

Have you thought about maybe looking for someone you approve of for/with. You don't have to like what he wants to do. I don't think it is right. But rite or wrong is not up for debate right now. Is there someone you could allow him to be w/ and narrow it down to that one person. Someone you will not feel threatened by. She will be impending on your territory. Someone who you can tolerate. someone you could potentially grow to like as well. Someone else who is married and is open to the idea.

Maybe like polygamy He is faithful to you but belongs to the ohter woman on weds and Fri nights.If he chooses to have sex w/ her on those 2 nights then that is up to him and her. If he ends up fixing broken tile or squeeky doorknobs that is fine to. I think in the context of another relationship he will not be nearly as happy about sharing 2 women and will soon drop woman number two. Does that make since.

Just something to think about. there are lots of documenteries on poloygamy, from the woman's point of view.