Bless your heart -- You are STILL the wonderful mother, great woman that you ALWAYS were!!! Do NOT let him take away your POWER. Don't let that happen because if you do, then he will WIN. Take your power BACK. You are beautiful, you are a strong woman! Look at what you've done! You've raised 3 beautiful daughters all by yourself and stayed sane! Do you have ANY idea how hard that is to do?? I'm sure you do, but I'm not sure you really understand how important it is to be both mother AND FATHER to these girls! You've given them everything -- all that you have to help them grow up moral, decent girls. That's an incredible responsibility and you've done it! All by yourself. You are incredibly STRONG.

Now you have to STAY strong so you can show him that you don't NEED a man to be a successful woman. You don't need HIM or anyone else! He's a LOSER. He can't be loyal or truthful to anyone. Not even to himself -- and that's no MAN.

So don't give him your power. Don't grieve over this "man" -- you can grieve over the time that you lost because of him but don't grieve for HIM. He isn't worth it, my friend. The next woman who gets stuck with him will need your grief. My prayers are with you dear one, and if you ever want to talk, please message me. I'll be there for you. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee