It sounds like he is objectifying you and I'm sure that kills your self esteem. I don't think people like feeling like sex objects. Maybe it just comes across that way. I think two people need to be on the same page when it comes to sexual frequency.

I have mixed emotions about the subject. In the last couple of months before this fall out, I wanted sex everyday. I think I was over compensating for my lack of interest in the previous months. I also wanted to show her I though she was still pretty and that I still wanted her. It was a bit of selfishness as well. I generally enjoy sex. For me I like the closeness and intimacy it brings. To be connected deeply, the pleasure and give and take between two people. I felt fulfilled being able to satisfy her, and I enjoyed when I finshed. Honestly, it is the only time in my life that I experience bliss. The moments afterwards, when you are laying there looking at each other and you know you are loved. I would take that feeling everyday if I could. That is just my 2 cents.