((( Kim )))

Welcome back... I think there was an APB out for you a while ago. I wondered where you went...

Could you *try* (I know it's hard) to use humor with your roommate? I have followed your posts and I know what a painful topic your childhood was for you, but that's the only thing I can think of that would allow you to get your point across without having him feel unduly criticized. But, I don't know what kind of relationship you have with him. If you joke around with him often, then humor might be something you can pull off, but if not, then... maybe write a letter?

I'm sorry that he's not more sensitive to your understandably hurt feelings