The last five years have been hard on me. My sister came home with a new baby leaving her husband. She then came to live with my parents. She has always made her problems the centre of our family. I have always taken a back seat to her and her problems. I always understood-even though it has been annoying.

However, in recent years since we have both had kids i have noticed that my mom really does favor her more and her kids. She does everything for her and her kids and I feel like my kids are second class citizen and it REALLY hurts me.I never wanted to burden my mom and take advantage of her but my sister will use her at every chance she can. She drains my mom to the bitter end. I never get a chance to spend any one on one time with her because she is always with my sister and her kids and it TRULy makes me resentful. I am and was the obidient daughter who always stayed by there side, and cared for them when she couldn't care less and now everything is about her and her kids. It really truly hurts me and my mom thinks that I am over reacting or jealous. At this point I am so sick of being upset about it...but i can't get over it. it really angers me and upsets me...i just don't know how to handle it anymore.