You may very well more articulate than you think. I'm very much like you in seeing the black, white, gray, and every rainbow color in between ( I like how Optimize put it). I struggle with this with my sister, she's very quick and articulate but has quick opinions and decisions. I'm left more fully considering all the angles and perspectives, which leaves me with difficulty responding as quickly. I like to take my time to really think things through. But yes depending on a mood and circumstances I might also change my mind about just how right or wrong something might be. I would call you very thoughtful and open minded.