yes i guess.... but it is easier to fool others... people see what they want to see... i don't talk too much in conversation... i encourage others to speak... so bottom line is people love my company and i am known as "strong and silent" .... nobody has any idea how hard it is for me to socialize/connect with others..... just read some body language books....every move you make must be rehearsed... the way you make eye contact,walk,talk,speak.... and silence always works...