Iowa....I am at the crossroads of my life now as my two sons go their own way and I am 48. I am still in minimum wage work even after years of education. I failed at marriage/relationships. I have no social life or hobbies. My whole purpose has been my two sons and now they are leaving. My childhood was screwed up. My dating years were hurtful. My work life was disrespectful (as I am sure many others can also report).

At 48 years of age, now, I have no clue what my purpose is in life. I feel there is no use for me at work, with my sons who now have female companions, and no friends to hang with or companion to share with. I still have the support, though of the people on this website to keep me grounded. Please, at least allow us to help you in some small way. Even if it is just to vent your thoughts during moments like this. If you feel there is no one to turn to...at least voice it on here. It helps others here just as much to feel they can help others in some way as it does to feel that people want to help them.

An injury (whether physical, or emotional) may be long past, but the result of it has to be dealt with forever after. It changes us forever. HOWEVER....it is not the only moment that shapes us. Allow us to carry some of your burden so that you can find a little place inside for a peaceful thought also, now and then.