Hi Mrs88 ~ I'm so sorry you're having such trouble. I know what it feels like when your sister is favored over you.

I know you said that your Mom thinks you're overreacting and jealous, but can you sit her down and have a heart-to-heart? Can you tell her exactly how you feel? Perhaps she doesn't know the depth of your feelings, and how it REALLY makes you feel. In fact I'm sure she doesn't. I know that MY mother didn't know how I felt. Maybe you've already had this long talk with your Mom, I don't know. But it wouldn't hurt to do it again.

Also, it couldn't hurt to talk with your selfish sister!! She has NO RIGHT to be draining your mother of everything -- she's an adult and needs to be on her own. If she left her husband, she should have had a plan BEFORE she left, and that plan should NOT have been to move back in with Mom!! She needs to MOVE OUT on her own. Mom has to TELL her that she has to leave.

I wish I had a fool proof way to make things better. I wish you the very best. God bless you my friend. Please take care of YOU. You might want to visit our depression forum. It sounds like you are depressed -- if so, therapy might be the best thing for you. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee