I'm not saying what is right and what is wrong, nor am I going to expound on my thoughts on sexual realtions. But I hope I will give you something to think about. There will be many times in your relationship where you and he will not agree on what you want. This is one of those cases. It sounds like rather than reaching a mutually acceptable compromise his attitude is that he knows you disagree but doesn't care. He wants what he wants and he is going to needle you until you give in. If he handles this situation that way, what will he do with others?

Are you looking at a future of always giving in to his desires and wants or one where you opinions and preferences are considered and respected? For example, I wanted a pet; my husband did not. So, in his mind we were not getting a pet. Finally one day I told him that we had a give and take relationship and just because he said no did not mean the answer was no. We talked about why I wanted a pet and he did not and came to a MUTIAL agreement to get a cat. We are both quite happy with our dear little fur baby. If we had not respected each other's feelings we either would not have a cat and I would resent it or we would have the cat without his imput and he would feel angry.

Do what you need to do for you. It sounds like you bf is immature and has not learned any self control. He cannot always act on his desires. This attitude could lead to trouble.