once again thanks for your kind words. As far an update is concerned, she isn't in contact with him any more and probably won't any more. WE seem to be trying to keep things going. She sees how much she hurt me and probably feels a bit guilty for the mess. Hope for the best I guess. Its just going to take alot of time to reconnect if we can do this at all. Just takes alot of effort to get the ball rolling. I hope we can do it.