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Originally Posted by LovelaceF
Yes, he's trying to use her to fulfil his carnal needs. One could argue, though, that that's part of the "package" in a traditional marriage.
We promise to be faithful to our spouses, and our spouses promise to be faithful to us. In exchange for that faithfulness, I think it's important to recognize that our spouses have needs too.
No, she shouldn't feel pressured or allow her husband to do something that she's not comfortable with. Yes, he sounds a bit thick headed.
Still, he's trying to give up porn (a good thing, I would think) and he wants her help. If she doesn't mind helping, then what's the harm?
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Absolutely not part of the package of a traditional marriage! Shocking actually, what you've written. Sex is a gift, not a right just because a person is married. Every single person on this planet should have a say on what they do with their bodies and there are no exceptions just because there's a ring on the finger.
Did you read the rest of her post? I think you should re-read it to understand actually what he is like towards her and take in the whole picture.