My husband now knows about my problem & he has been great about it & he is always there for me he doesnt sit me down & make me eat a big meal every day just as long as I have something to eat he's happy I had my oldset child in hospital last weekend over night as he was really ill & I was soooooo worried about him I forgot all about what I was going trought that I was eating to keep my strength up since then I have been eating every day & I am losing more weight now then when I wasnt eating in the last week I have lost over 4lb