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Old Mar 08, 2013, 04:43 PM
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My stress often kicks in dreaming, repeat dreams I pay attention to single occurrence rarely....even on stress issues. Marriage can be greatly pleasing but also a relationship stress, in the least dreaming about it! If your having "dating" issues of course they may trigger further relationship dreams being its in the frontal thoughts, yours.

I would say this is nothing to be to surprised or worried about, many parents don't agree with spouse selections. I have three girls that someday will marry and I'm sure I'll be upset in some manor as to their decisions. I'll pray for the best outcome and surely be blessed with grandchildren eventually.

In regards to even talking of marriage after less than 1 yr together, I'd say don't use that vocabulary. I've married twice, the first after 6 months in a relationship. The second after 5 years together, and am much more satisfied the second time.

Best wishes!
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I have also found peace, understanding, in the work of Russ Harris. His book, "The Reality Slap" brings change from the inside as Professor Paul Gilbert, PhD who authored "The Compassionate Mind" states.