If you like compliments, what's wrong with that? When your BFs friend compliments you and your BF makes a demeaning comment, let him know you appreciate honest comments--and it wouldn't hurt him to say something nice once in a while. Women and men help their relationship by telling each other what they like.

Being messed up is never easier than real life. Real life is complicated, but messed up is always going in circles, always going out the in door, never having the right phone number for the person you need. Messed up never goes forward, never gets ahead.