I posted in the depression forum too because I do have depression and anxiety but I think I have DCD. My story: The guy I was talking to is almost four years younger than me. we were talking for two months. We wanted to take things slow since we've both been hurt in the past. Everything was going fine. We went on dates twice a week, held hands all the time, talked and texted every day. We slept together many times too. He always said that he likes me alot and that I have all the qualities he wants in a girl friend. We always had fun together and slept with each other as well. I know that was a mistake since we agreed to go slow. My parents didn't like him because he didn't have his degree yet. He is in school part time to be an engineer and also worked at a bank. Ever since he lost his job about three weeks ago, he's been distant. He said that he accidentally deposited a client's money in his account. His boss of course didn't believe it was on accident. For four days I noticed he was distant. Two weeks ago i asked him if he still likes me and he said yes. I asked why he has been distant and he said he has alot on his mind. I said well can we talk tonight? He said no hun call you tomorrow I'm doing homework now. I said please? You being distant is bothering me. He said no I have things to do tonight call you tomorrow. I said ok. I called the next morning and left him a voicemail saying I'm sad and that I hope he wants to see me again. I said I understand if he just wants to be friends or needs some time alone. He never called or texted back. I tried calling a few times again on Saturday night but no answer. I texted three days later saying please call me back. I'm really sad you just stopped talking to me out of the blue. I really would appreciate an explanation. No response. I don't understand how someone could just lose interest like that. Do you think alot of it has to do with losing his job? I miss him and he made me happy. Last weekend he texted saying he just wants to be alone now and doesn't have time for a relationship with anyone right now. I said ok. I left him lone for about a week and then I texted three days later asking if he ever wants to see me again he said he'd call if he's ready. So I left him alone for three days then last night I felt lonely and called alot hoping to see him. He finally texted back saying he wants to be alone and doesn't want to see me and to move on. I said ok well if you change your mind let me know. Do you think there's any chance he'll want to see me in the future? Did I totally ruin it? :-( he has been cheated on multiple times in the past by his ex and took her back before. I hope he didnt take her back again. She even hit herself in front of him and went to his house and started hitting him. To this day, she still tries contacting him. I've been cheated on too by my previous ex of 2 yrs. this is a huge blow to me and my self esteem. Anyways, I deleted this guy's number so I'm not tempted to call during times I feel desperate or depressed. This is how I have been with past breakups too. I feel worthless without the person and keep calling for awhile. Anyways do you think I have a chance of him ever contacting me again? I am seeing a counselor to get my self esteem up. I also don't want to get attached so easily. My parents and friends all think its fishy what he did with the bank. They don't believe it was on accident. I don't know what to believe.