I would like to say that I think you deserve better that to be strung along like that.

My only thought is maybe his kinkiness scares or shames him. My wife introduced me to kinky play and some stuff I really enjoyed. It was a pleasurable experience. There was one thing that we tried that I didn't feel so good about. She had a rape fantasy. It was kinda scary and exciting the first time we tried. I did it because it was her fantasy and I wanted to please her. I felt guilty that I enjoyed it. It felt wrong and it felt good at the same time. Do you think he feels guilty over his fantasy and is pushing you away because he doesn't want to engage in these activities anymore?