Thank you Adam. I appreciate the response. As I said, I hate to ask, but my college doesn't play around whatsoever regarding internet activities. I've gotten quarantined for the most trivial, innocent things...it's ridiculous. -_-

I do certainly agree with you that he's likely lying to himself...a lot of it to me seems like he isn't sure of what he wants, you know? I wouldn't necessarily call him evil, but your emotions shouldn't be a casualty in his pursuit of figuring out what it is he wants. My point is more to that he should have more respect for you than to cheat on you, and then to be so callous in breaking things off.