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Originally Posted by Leed
She does not have to participate in ANYTHING for him to do that if she does't want to, and it sounds like she doesn't. He's being totally selfish, and he's an adult. He can wean himself off by himself, like a big boy! It's time for him to "man up" and stop using her for his own pleasure or his own "use."
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Lee, you hit the nail on the head. This is the crux of my issue. I believe this other women deserve a man who treats her with love, honor and respect, but not me. My T was "appalled" when I said, in answer to the question of why I am staying ... "I'm not as miserable any more"
Sigh. I've come so far and still have so far to go!
Thanks Lee!