If you do not mind my asking further... how did you come to the point when you started considering what your obligations and responsibilities as The Good Wife (citing the thread's title) were without ever considering whether the husband had any obligations with respect to financial contributions to the household? Is he a stay-at-home-father?

Given how long it takes him to come and how often he is having his orgasms, I will assume that he is generally able-bodied. I mean, he clearly has some organs in working order (you guessed it right - I meant his hand(s)). So, probably not on disability due to physical disease... is he on disability due to mental health issues?