http://forums.psychcentral.com/borde...ml#post2935834

I like this description that I posted at the top of this forum. I found it to better explain BPD than some other descriptions that were just a list and a statement that the person had to have a certain number of the traits.

Keep asking those who say it is you, to explain to you what they mean. They know you well and have an idea why they think you fit the definition of this personality disorder. There are many books to read about it. One that was illuminating for me is "Get Me Out of Here" by Rachel Rieland.