Thank you for the comments. Yes her father is in her life and that was always the plan, my problem is I just want us to be separate I don't hold a grudge I just don't like him. I'm with my daughter and granddaughter right now and he had been calling everyday since I've been here and that has been almost four weeks each day he calls and the questions are what is your doing , what's she cook, how's she doing Why? I am sure his wife is not around my daily operations does not need to be reported to him?