greentires4me, when you have situations where you forget who you are and the psychotic episodes where you not yourself, someone else plus the history you described it all strongly suggests DID. I can not diagnose DID, I'M not a pdoc.

In the DID forum there stickies for you to look through and get information so you can ask questions to your primary doctor and/or pdoc regarding your diagnosis.

One information thread is called Telling Your Primary Doctor, read through that and the following two threads underneath the first thread. This a suggestion, so you understand DID and determine if any of the info is useful for you.