My boyfriend of a year and a few months( not to mention he has been my best friend for years) cheated on me. He did not even let me know. I found out from a girl who messaged me and he claimed that it was just a rumor. If I had not gone and talked to the girl then he would have kept it a secret. He then confessed to what he had done and seems truly upset and guilty about it. He said he didn't want to hurt me and lose me because telling me would. However, he says he will change, get help, do everything, and anything to be with me. I want to believe him yet it is hard right now. He is a good guy but he can be overly friendly and I don't want to be back with him if he does the same thing again. My friends all tell me no but if he is being honest you couldn't find a better guy than him. Any suggestions? :/